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Nicole C.'s avatar

In 12 step rooms I am reminded that “figuring it out is not a step”. I try to apply this when the Why Me? gets too loud regarding my daughter’s genetic disorder, my metastatic breast cancer, or other painful challenges in this life. I take comfort in the worldview that things are as they are because the causes and conditions are present for them to arise. It’s not personal. It’s simply the way life is unfolding right now. I can argue with it if I want, but taking it personally just adds suffering.

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As the parent of an adult child with multiple disabilities since birth, I put aside that question years ago and applied all my professional training and experience to creating a better life for her and her peers. So much so, like many hubbies in my world, I’m now doing it as a single mom - relying upon Social Service programs to survive. I know God is with me every day, but sadly, not in the pews - where we have struggled the most.

I always find him here, among all of you. And, I’m glad!

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