May 15, 2022 • 2M

A blessing for a pastor's heart (and for other helping professionals too)

but not in that passive-aggressive "well, bless their heart" kind of way.

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Nadia Bolz-Weber
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Good morning.

We had our Synod Assembly this week (yearly meeting with the bishop, clergy and lay leaders) and I am aware of how exhausted the clergy are right now. (And I am sure…all other helping professions.) So here is a blessing for my colleagues. Feel free to send it on to whoever you’d like.


A Blessing for a Pastor’s Heart.

I imagine it was because of your heart that you went into this work in the first place.

So I imagine you have a heart that wanted to extend beyond itself, to stretch to love God’s people.

So may God bless the parts of your heart that receive their stories so openly, and comfort their sufferings so compassionately, and share their joys so thoroughly.

And may God also heal the parts of your heart that have been wounded by the very people whose stories you receive and whose sufferings you comfort and whose  joys you share.

And may God revive the parts of your heart that have grown protectively cold.

And may God protect the parts of your heart that are well-loved by those who know you best.

And may God gently place God’s own heart right behind yours so that the sorrow of those in your care can move your heart but find a landing place in God’s.

And may God gently place God’s own heart right behind yours so that the love you give in this work can come through you but doesn't have to come from you.

And as the love of God moves from God’s heart through your own to those in your care, may your heart soak up all it needs in the process.

Because your heart is a human one too, and it deserves to be well tended to.


*I heard this image about God’s heart behind our own somewhere and wish I could remember the source. If anyone knows, tell me!

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