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Lori Asbury's avatar

God is good. A friend of mine had a stroke at 48 and had been in the hospital for over a week. (I found her unresponsive on the floor of her house.) She is expected to fully recover and was released to her Uncle and Aunt. Both are doting on her. The doctor said she could drive short distances but should avoid it if she can for a while. She heard she can drive short distances. So her first day out she drove several short distances before going to her Uncle and Aunt's to stay. Her Uncle and Aunt were extremely worried because they were expecting her in a few minutes and she didn't show up for a few hours. She also planned on staying with them for only a couple of days. We talked yesterday and she was complaining of everyone doing everything for her. I asked her why is she denying folks of helping her and doing things for her and why is she causing her Uncle and Aunt to worry? I told her she doesn't need to do things herself and to ask those around her for help, including me. (This is while I was driving her to her home to get a few things.) I get that it is hard to receive and depend on others when one has been "independent" since childhood. I've been independent since childhood too. I told her to look at the blessings she has that so many family and friends are willing to help her. All of us should be so blessed. "Don't deny these people the opportunity to help you," I said to her. She's agreed to ask for help whether it is rides or tasks. She has agreed to stay with her Uncle and Aunt for the next week (they are tickled pink I got her to stay longer and are "spoiling" her in her recovery).

When my dad died back in 2016,, I was so overcome with grief I couldn't function. I was crying so much I couldn't see and needed a little help getting around. My hubby and friends helped me get around town and called on me often to see how I was doing. It is humbling and it is the good part. May all of you be so blessed.

Renate Ernst's avatar

Dear favorite pastor Nadia,

Thank you 😊

Thank you for the additional aspect of needing to be needy.

To give and to receive.

Reminds me of the incident where Jesus was about to wash Peter’s feet, and he didn’t want the Lord of creation to do so. He didn’t want to be needy out of a crooked view on humility.

But Jesus as always shows a new perspective:

John 13:8-9

„No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.”

Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.”

9 “Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!”

We so much want to have part with Jesus. With one another. Like the Mandalorian says: This is the way…

Hugs from Germany

Renate

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